Decisiveness is a characteristic of high performing men and women. Almost any decision is better than no decision at all. It gets uncomfortable sitting on the fence, doesn’t it? Sometimes fear of failure, lack of confidence, or self doubt clouds our ability to make a choice. What can help is strengthening the communication between our conscious mind and our unconscious mind.
The decisive person appears to make decisions effortlessly but that is not the case. They pause for a moment or two… not to think, rather to listen to the still, small, subtle voice of intuition. Your intuition will give you the correct answer every time. You have to be open and receptive to your intuition. This requires trust. If you are wondering if your answer is correct, it is usually because you haven’t learned to discriminate between personal and intuitional. The personal is always mental, emotional and stressful, while the intuitional is always calm, composed and neutral. One is pushy and the other is passive.
I can teach you a helpful technique to make decisions using your intuition. You will consider a situation, think of the solution and test it out to make sure it is sound. Your mind will be clear and your intuition will have a stronger voice. It feels extraordinary to be free to make decisions that used to weigh you down. You will feel light and spontaneous.